Blocking with Blockhead


So, over the course of the last 4 years , it’s fair to say the social landscape have gotten a touch more intense. The political divide has never been further and I’m not gonna stand here and pretend I’m not a part of it. As someone who is staunchly on the left of things , i realize some things i write online can be somewhat incendiary. In fact, i often post stuff like that with a purpose. To weed out the undesirables. I say some shit i actually believe but know will ruffle some feathers, they jump in my comments, i block them. It’s simple. Now, it hasn’t always been like this. In fact, I had a very strict “no blocking” rule for a while. My thinking being “everyone deserves to be heard regardless of their stance”. Well, after 4 years of this shit and talking with people who will argue the semantics of racism , classism, sexism, equal rights , etc… rather than even acknowledging they exist, I’m done “discussing” this. Clearly, no one is changing anyone else’s mind. We simply have different core beliefs. Thing is, the people i disagree with are arguing for something that seems very dangerous to me. It’s hate. It’s dismissing the lives of other people. It’s something that lacks a fundamental amount of perspective and empathy. , to the point where I simply need to throw my hands in the air and move on. If an unarmed black man gets shot in the back 7 times by a cop and your first reaction is “Yeah but what did he do?” or “But did he have a criminal record?” but when a 17 year old white kid inserts himself into a protest with an AR 15 and kills two people and you’re breaking you neck to rationalize it, then you’re missing the point enough for me to both not wanna talk to you and never wanna hear your opinion on anything ever again. So, i reached the point maybe a year ago where i started just blocking people. Fuck it. If i think your politics are dangerous and shitty, it’s my right to not have to be exposed to them. It’s not like I’m gonna miss some life altering take that will suddenly make me become an all lives matter pro lifer. We are both set in our ways and , for the sake of my day to day well being, it’s best i simply remove the cancers from my social media. After all, I’m a real person with real thoughts and real feelings. I think it’s my right to dictate my own existence. It’s not like by blocking these people, I cease hearing what the other side is saying. The difference is, I’m seeking out those viewpoints when I want to. Not having them personally shoved down my throat every time I post something with a political viewpoint.

I’ve always been a grey area person on many topics, willing to hear both sides out. But there is a line with this and it’s been pushed to the forefront more than ever since Trump got into office. Oh, it’s ALWAYS been there but never has the other side felt so cozy in their questionable stances. It’s funny cause it takes all types. You got the run of the mill “MAGA” morons , you got the Libratarians who don’t admit to liking trump but DEFINITELY are closer to his side and always a little racist for some reason, all the way to the “intellectuals” who will cite books and articles as proof their argument is valid even though, when it comes down to it, their bottom line is the same as your average trump conservative and they’re literally tying to argue against very simple issues like basic human rights and peoples lives MATTERING. Like Michael Che said “Not mattering more…just MATTERING”.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Q5ctljPg20
After a slightly baiting post, and a few blocks, I sometimes mention that i’ve done so. To which the response is either “yassss!” from my side or being called a coward who’s censoring people with opposing opinions. Now, I honestly can’t even argue that i’m not doing that. i am , in fact, removing people with opposing opinions from my social media. Exactly that. I can see how that would look Cowardly to people on that side of things. But here’s what you have to understand: i’ve been on the internet arguing with people since the mid 90’s. Sure, back then it was about if Ras Kass is gonna be better than Nas one day (he would not), but it was the same kind of fevered back and forth. so, if you take the same rabid fervor of a mid 90’s online rap argument, add actual issues that matter and even more divisive topics…shit gets hairy and frankly, it’s exhausting. I’m tired of it. I’m tired of strangers imposing their bullshit on me. Sure, I’m opening doors to it by putting my opinions out there publicly but you know what i’ve never once done? not ever ever? Popped off at a complete stranger in their comments. Not once. Live it how you give it, man. People have their agendas. i am no different. But I damn sure don’t impose mine on strangers. The day you see me in someone else’s facebook comments arguing over politics? just throw me off a bridge. when that happens, I am broken and cannot be fixed.

If you follow me, that’s your choice. If you unfollow me, also your choice. if you like my music and disagree with my opinions, that’s fine. We are all humans after all. HOWEVER, if you feel the need to pop into my comments and mentions with some shitty take and even shittier tone? Bye. We are done here. I’ve had people approach me in thoughtful and constructive ways about these topics and i don’t block those people cause , at the very least, they were respectful. We will never agree but they came at me on a human level. I can appreciate that. Sadly, the majority of the comments I get are

“You’re a fucking sheep dude…”

“Actually, here’s an article written by some guy that explains why black lives, in fact, don’t actually matter…he’s a professor so…”

“Typical libtard…”

some dumb shit where patriotism is used as an argument for all thing shitty about America.

Or the devils advocate guy who thinks he’s clever but really has no point to make outside that’s he’s a argumentative asshole

and might i add, i’ve got no patience for some of the radical liberal side of things either. It’s less offensive but it’s also just as short sighted to me. I have blocked the “Hillary and trump are the same thing, sheeple” faction as well. Only difference is that i can somewhat relate to their ideals at the core (of course i’d rather have bernie than biden but it’s sadly not gonna happen so we must move forward and stop fighting with ourselves in order to find a greater good…getting trump out of office no matter what) but their rhetoric is dangerous in my eyes as well. It’s funny cause what they want is a less selfish country but the fact they’re putting their personal ideals above the bigger picture is actually the most selfish shit you can do.

Anyway, I wrote all this as a means to explain myself. If you’ve ever been blocked by me, I hope you know there is more nuance to my thinking than simply “Fuck this guy”. In fact, i wish you no ill will. I just don’t want your voice in my life. It’s about me, not you.
I’m sure the response to this will be shitty. I’m sure more opposers will come out because of this post. That’s fine. I got endless blocks to spare but here’s an idea…instead of jumping in my comments with anger, simply unfollow me. Mute me. Whatever you like. I won’t care and I won’t miss you. I’m really nobody. So if you don’t know me on a personal level, nothing i say should effect you personally. Hell, you can even still listen to my music if you’re able to separate the man from his art. Or not…It’s all fine with me. Live you life as you see fit. I have endlessly more respect for people who take that rout than ones that feel it’s their duty to let me know how they feel , when i wasn’t asking. Also, if you’ve ever announced to anyone you’re unfollowing them…you’re the biggest loser on earth and should be ashamed of yourself.

9 thoughts on “Blocking with Blockhead

  1. “Actually, here’s an article written by some guy that explains why black lives, in fact, don’t actually matter…he’s a professor so…”

    “Or the devils advocate guy who thinks he’s clever but really has no point to make outside that’s he’s a argumentative asshole”

    These are the two most egregious to me. The people who use bullshit science to back up completely false beliefs, and the bomb throwers who claim not to be “on one side or the other” but always manage to side with people who believe that entire races of people don’t matter. They bring down discourse by not being honest with themselves and those around them.

  2. Thank you for blocking those assholes. Not just for your own sake, but it’s better for society to de-platform all that cancerous bullshit.

  3. “Plzzz! Leave me alone in echochamber bubble! I dont wanna see opposing viewpoints that shatter my shallow idea of the world! I just wanna continue using a professional platform to virtue signal to my fans what a swell guy I am! It’s definitely not like I know that doing such things causes rift and furthers the the divide that I’m currently crying about. Of course ALL my fans should agree with me on my half-baked, full-of-shit “woke” social-political views 😦

    No, I can’t be who the wrong is being dumb… EVERYONE ELSE IS THE PROBLEM.. I AM IN CHARGEof my social media posts, regardless of the consequences! Therefore I am the one who’s gonna censor and edit and weed out all the icky opposing viewpoints that I don’t like very much. You’ll all be in the Facebook gulag when I’m done with you! 😡

    I mean give me a break!! It’s not like I’ve ever taken a class on economics or behavioral psychology before. I just sit in my room and go beep-boop on my drum machine and sell those beats to the guys I dont even like… guys of whom I have to stay on their good side or else I lose out on moneys…. God I hate capitalism so much… (did I mention how much of a swell guy I am???)

    REEEEEEEEEEEEE”
    /end-rant

    – the real Blockhead

    • You really nailed exactly the type of response I was expecting. Thank you for fulfilling the prophecy and maybe read my words a little closer enxt time cause you’re kinda playing yourself by even dropping his response. Anytime I’m hit with the “shut up and make beats” response, I know exactly what I’m dealing with and trust, if I could block you on every and all social media outlets, I would. But, alas, you’re anonymous so, no dice. And I wouldn’t block you cause your opinions differ from. Mine. I would block you cause you’re you present them like a total asshole.

  4. We badly need more political parties. Social media has made it so no one can collaborate across the aisle “with the enemy.” Those married to being R or D are setting themselves up to look dumb and/or hypocritical.

    • i lived in the us for a while and when talking politics i always asked, were are the independents ?

      The electoral college needs a total revamp.

      I still enjoy sage francis’ slow down Gandhi track.

  5. Hey Blockhead! Random, but just wanted to shout out a quick message. Love your music, can’t wait for things to open up so I can come to your shows again. But to the point: I picked up some records the other day and I happened to get this one: https://www.discogs.com/Various-Psych-Funk-101/release/1938989# . Not sure if you have listened to it but it’s an awesome collection of songs from all over and right away it reminded me of your music. Thought I’d recommend if you haven’t heard for inspiration or your own listening pleasure! Keep on groovin.

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